We all have certain personality that we want to express by dressing, walking, talking and acting the way we want to be seen. People with self confidence have certain attitude that is reflected in those characteristics and many time they use some fashion clothes or accessories to better express their confident personality.
You can see it every day in your favorite fashion magazine, the people and celebrities that are shown have certain kind of clothes and accessories that express a clear personality of self confidence. Not every person pays attention to this kinds of things, some people can be confident of themselves and not have any kind of fashion in their clothes, they just want to be like they are and dont ket what anyone else says.
However, when we are dealing with many people in business, parties, dates and any other place, we need to give a good impression of ourselves. Even people with low self esteem, can express a confident image by using some cool clothes and accessories.
Im sure you can see it in people around you, for example when my sister is at home with family she wears some comfortable clothes and does not ker much about how good she looks. However, when she is going out to a part or a business presentation, she wears some fashion clothes and her psychology and emotions and in a different state or mind, she feels more confident, with more power and with authority.
So what projects our confidence is not just our clothes and accessories but our state of mind and physical attitude that we acquire at that moment. Many people dont pay attention to this things, but unconsciously they are acting in a different way anytime they are going out and dressing well.
So what should you wear to look cool and project authority? well you dont need expensive clothes, just dress with something that makes you feel good looking and that shows a good image of you. Wear some accessories that you like, like jewelry or something simple. Remember that it also depends of the occasion, if you are going to something informal, dont dress too much, you need to feel comfortable and make feel comfortable the people around you.
Quick Tip #1
You need to face your fears the most you can so you can get better and overcome them |
Quick Tip #2
Take the next step and every time you achieve a goal reward you self |
Quick Tip #3
You need to get out and do whatever it takes to know more people and have more friends so you can get comfortable over time |
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